Been thinking a lot about miracles lately.
Feels like it’s been a blimmin’ tough year for so many of our ladies.
It felt like the summer was especially hard with literally everything you can imagine, from cycles being cancelled at the last minute, or going really well only to find out it hadn’t worked, or heartbreaking losses and major health worries or stubborn hormones suddenly blocking the way.
You just hit the wall, don’t you?
And it’s hard to even recognise the person that used to feel hopeful, when your miracle feels a billion light years away.
Or lost in the realms of fairy-tail make believe.
Or taken by someone much luckier than you (!!)
Or maybe it was stupid to have even dared to think that there might have been a miracle with your name on it in the first place.
Probably the one question we get asked more than any other is
‘Do you think I’m just kidding myself?’
We know how hard it is to hold on to these dreams, when everything feels so stacked against you.
And we see what happens when, just as it has recently, some sort of subtle energy shift happens and a little chink of light sneaks in, and some of those very same little miracles that couldn’t come then, begin to pop up now.
The best bit is that they’ve been arriving for ladies that have been trying for years…are in their 40’s, (one of our very gorgeous lovelies has just become a mum at 46)…have been struggling with thyroid issues…or losses that utterly break your heart…and unexplained infertility…and multiple IVF’s…and adoptions…and donor treatments…and those on big, wild spiritual fertility journeys…and they give us goose bumps on our goose bumps every time.
We sometimes steer away from writing about these miracles because often it’s THE last thing you need or want to hear when your own miracle feels like it’s just never going to come, but we know how important it is to have your HOPE restored too.
There are basically no words in our hearts that can describe what it feels like to walk on these journeys through the months and years of struggles and finally welcome and meet these little ones that we’ve ‘known’ and felt since before they were even conceived.
Being in those darkest times and knowing how hard it is to keep going…and the courage and strength it takes…and knowing that these little lights really can and do arrive in the midst of all of this, is beyond anything.
They’re the moments that say…
yep, it is possible,
yep, it does happen for ladies that have been exactly where you are right now,
and yep, however hard it is to believe, these little miracles do come even when you’ve hit that point of no return and think it’s never going to be you.
And yep, they’re happening when it seems like all the odds and all the evidence are stacked against them, and they’re bringing SO much light with them.
It really does feel that they’re part of a whole new wave of energy and healing and harmony, that’s coming in now and that’s why their journeys are taking a little (or a lot!) longer or are needing some extra help just to make sure that everything is ready for them.
So please don’t think you’re kidding yourself, or feel like you ought to give up because someone else thinks you should.
We really do believe in miracles. Because we see them happening.
With all our love,
Cath and Lucy x x x
We would love to help…
We see how much being able to talk things through and knowing that you’re doing everything you can and need to be doing to nourish and support yourself and your fertility can restore hope and confidence, and how much more control it seems to bring back to your journey.
We see how much it can help your intuition get louder and clearer about what feels right for you, and start to guide you from breadcrumb to breadcrumb, and step by step towards your dream.
We see how much it can help to know that you’re not alone with all of that, that you can share the load, that you can be supported and held along the way, and how much softer and gentler the journey can feel.
We see all the things you are doing SO RIGHT and how sometimes it’s about holding on despite all those times it hasn’t happened yet, knowing that you’re meant to be dreaming this dream, and that there is a miracle with your name on it.
…and we would love to be able to support you in any and every way we possibly can. x x x